How to Win Your Ex Back

You feel as though you still love her. But getting your ex girlfriend back isn’t exactly that easy. You decide not to keep her pictures in the shoebox – for now. Perhaps it was something that could’ve worked, or you feel that the chemistry was perfect. It doesn’t matter to her anymore -- she’s out of your life, and you should accept it as it is. Right?

Wrong. Unless you’ve been a real pain in the butt during the time you were together, you have all the right to go after her. However, you reason should be believable. If you have changed for the better, go after her. Do not go after her if she fills some gap in your humanity – after all, you’re supposed to be fine on your own. Do go after her because you’ve had some pretty happy memories together. Do not go after her just because the sex is good, or she owes you a large amount.

If you are ready to get your ex back, try these tips:

Act like you’re OK, even without her.
If there’s one type of guy women are attracted to, it’s the independent, confident type. Groveling and rolling in the dust simply won’t make her come back. If you come off as needing her she will realize her decision was the right one. Women don't want to feel as if they are someone's crutch.

Start dating again and make sure she knows about it.
If she still has feelings for you then jealousy can be your friend. However, use with discretion – this can either make her realize how much she loves you, or she may also realize that you were a player all along. Make sure that you’re doing it smoothly, not brusquely. Be the sweetheart she always wanted you to be. Doing it on the first date is a no-no.

You may see things clearer after you have had some time to heal.
If in the end you can not come to a resolution, it may be time to move on with your life. Believe it or not, you will heal. After all, it should always be about you. Give it some time, a month or two, call and ask her to lunch. Talk casually and don’t bring up the past. This will show her that you are OK. Drunk dialing and acting like a baby is not the solution. You had to grow, and you have. So show her.

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