I Didn’t Think I Would Get My Wife Back, But I Did Using Psychological Methods

When I broke up with my wife the last thing I thought would happen was for me to get my wife back. Sometimes strange things happen.

I was so distraught I just did not have a clue where to turn. I spent ages looking for articles and stuff to help me get over her but what I came across was info on how to get her back.

I thought this was too good to be true, I rarely fall for this kind of stuff. But I decided to test it out, for the sake of a measly forty bucks.

One of the bonus sections dealt with psychology and how we use it every day to almost control other people with silent suggestion.

I was quite impressed with this part of the package. I connected with these tactics almost immediately. In fact I recognised some of them as things I’d used on my kids to get them to do stuff they didn’t want to.

The old reverse psychology stuff is used all the time, everywhere. Imagine you are going on a run and you try to get a pal to go with you.

They don’t like the idea so you lay a line on them like “if you aren’t physically capable, that’s fine”. They usually return with something like “of course I’m capable, when do we start”.

That’s psychology in action there. You used their own sense of pride against them. The same type of subtle methods can be used to woo your ex round.

I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!

She called me back within a day and the important bit was she actually believed she was calling out of the blue. To find out how I was and what I was up to. She didn’t knowingly realise I had planned this with the seeded message.

When I left the message, I never once asked her to call me but I was fairly sure she would. I was right as well.

After this it was pretty easy going for us as my wife was convinced she’d made the first move. She hadn’t, I had. But I’m not going to remind her.

After the breakup I was looking for stuff to help me get over her and I ended up doing a u-turn and trying to get my ex back. Which worked out well for me.

If it hadn’t worked, as I expected it not to, I’d have taken the writer up on the guarantee and gone and watched a game!