Love and Infidelity

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Falling Out Of Love and Infidelity

Why do people fall out of love and become unfaithful to each other. There are numerous reasons for this happening. Let’s consider a few.

This happens quite frequently to younger couples and those couples who have been married for a short period of time.

The feelings that initially happen between young couples which attract them to each other can sometimes dissipate and only sometimes resurface again when either of them meets someone new in their life who can rekindle those feelings.

Our cultural beliefs today have led us to believe that feelings of love  or falling in love is part of the experience you should have before committing yourself to another person. People who wish to live together and develop a loving relationship with each other need to take many other points into consideration. They need to have reached a level of maturity in their own life and not be self centered and care only about themselves. A loving relationship involves two people and both their needs and feelings need to be considered.

One must try and live your life within the framework of the type of person that you are and your companion that you choose to share your life with should realize this. Those seeking constant excitement and dramatizing events that occur within a relationship will never experience a true sense of what their life is all about. They will soon lose those feelings of love which brought them together in the first place and should the excitement no longer occur within their relationship they will look somewhere else to satisfy that need. Characteristics of individuals who come together and form a relationship should be well understood by each one or else they could well develop into other difficulties which at a later stage could well stifle the relationship.

The romance of falling in love can quickly disappear once one is settled down and has to cope with the realities of married life such as raising a family and getting out there and working to provide for them. If either one of the partners in a relationship does not have a deep rooted belief in family life, strong core values and principles which they adhere to and most importantly a good level of self esteem they may well deviate and seek someone else to compensate for their inadequacies and be unfaithful to their partner. Feelings of being in love with someone else are often the reason given for trying to cope with one’s own inadequacies, unhappiness and instability.

A good sexual relationship within a marriage is an important and necessary contribution to the success of the marriage. Where this does not happen it very often leads to one of the partners in the relationship being unfaithful to the other. Both partners within a relationship have essential needs that should be met by their other half. As long as there is a strong value system being upheld in the family and both partners have good core values there is no reason why the relationship should not go from strength to strength. If however, the one person does not have the capacity to provide sufficient loving and caring attention to their partner and has a low self esteem without having good core principles on marriage and family life this is a perfect way in which a marriage or a relationship can disintegrate.

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