Things I’ve Learned From Women Who Have Dumped Me

Okay, I will admit, I’m been dumped. Frequently. More than I’m like to confess, in actual fact. And, although it hurt rather a lot every time, I need to say that I have grown from the experiences. So, these are some things I am learned from ladies who are dumped me.

Things I am Learned from Women Who are Dumped Me #1: It takes two. 

Often with the agony and heartbreak of a break-up, it is simple to blame the other person for your torment. But the reality is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were a part of the issue. Judge what has happened so you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I am Learned from Ladies Who are Dumped Me two : Give ladies their private space.

Women like to cuddle and snuggle.  They may seem to always be around.  But they need their personal space too.  Men have a tendency to be possessive.  We want to keep tabs on where they are going and what they are doing there.  If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger.  But, trust is a key component in a relationship.  When you invade her personal space, you send the message that you don’t trust your girlfriend.  This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I’m Learned from Girls Who are Dumped Me three : You get stronger over a period.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt’s so real, you will believe that you’ll never get over the break up. But the reality is that not only does time heal all pain, but you’ll appear from the break up a stronger person. As thinker Frederick Nietzsche declared, what which doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger.

Things I am Learned from Women Who are Dumped Me #4: It’s okay if it wasn’t meant to be.

Coming to accept that a relationship wasn’t meant to be is a key factor in healing.  If you had started projecting your relationship into the future considering marriage, thinking about children and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing.  It is better to end a relationship that wasn’t meant to be earlier rather than later.

Things I’m Learned from Ladies Who are Dumped Me 5 : great things don’t occur unless you make them occur.

Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that you can’t control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what happened.  If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen.

That means getting back on the pony. Go out, meet new girls. Have a chuckle. Finally , you may find another relationship. And, if you have followed the recommendation in this post about things I’m learned from girls who are dumped me, the relationship will be even stronger and better than the last one.

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Stewart L. Haney